Comments on: Designer Yarmulkas

By: Adam

Adam — Mon, 22 Oct 2007 09:40:44 +0000

It all depends on what team you support……!

By: Baruch Who?

Baruch Who? — Sun, 23 Sep 2007 20:36:06 +0000

Glad he’s not a NJ Devils fan.

By: BOTS member

BOTS member — Thu, 31 May 2007 19:03:44 +0000

Would folks care more if it was a 25 yr old man wearing a Raven’s yarmulkah? Or, is it only ok if it’s a child who “doesn’t know better.”

By: gishmak

gishmak — Sun, 27 May 2007 02:57:37 +0000

I definately see your poing on that. It shows a sensitivity u’ve recently acquired

By: BasMelech

BasMelech — Fri, 18 May 2007 05:32:43 +0000

I’m with Aishel on this one.
While I agree that the design is often a “necessary evil,” and the way in which we do this mitzva often becomes meshed with culture, we do need to keep a focus on the true essence of what we do. It is good to notice these things and not let the kipa become just another logo.

I also think that even 10-year-olds could use some extra excitement in this. Of course, there is a problem if he refuses to wear a yarmulka without a design, as might be the case with a 3y/o. But if he is wearing a yarmulka anyway, and often it may be a drudge for him, why not indulge a little if it is accepted in his school and community? Let the yarmulka be something special. He is old enough for a simple explanation of the true purpose and I don’t think the design will prevent him from appreciating it in the future.

By: Gadi

Gadi — Wed, 16 May 2007 16:28:39 +0000

I agree with OT. Most of the rest of your responses are speaking about little kids. If your kid is 8, 9 or 10, is going to an Observant school, lives in a town with an observant community, and still has “issues” wearing a kippah (like Peninah suggested) then you have a serious issue on your hands and you should probably speak with a Rav or a counselor of some sort.

A 9 or 10 year old boy should not have to have his kippah represent his favorite television show to make it wearable. Why not paint the parochet of the Aron Kodesh “Orange” during baseball season to show support for the O’s?

I agree with OT.

By: dreamer123

dreamer123 — Wed, 16 May 2007 05:13:34 +0000

i agree with your post 100% – actually have felt the same many a time.
not in a judgemental manner – more like a “why?”

By: Tim

Tim — Tue, 15 May 2007 15:03:17 +0000

I agree with Peninah sometimes you have to put some exsitment in to Yiddshkite so you childern should love to wear kippot and other Yiddish stuff
I Searched sports kippot and came across http://www.skullcap.com/p41/kippahs/sport/kipah/64/kippot.html

By: swfm

swfm — Mon, 14 May 2007 19:40:16 +0000

Doesn’t bother me:P

By: SaraK

SaraK — Mon, 14 May 2007 15:42:48 +0000

Same story as Peninah. My sister tried putting suede kippot on her almost 5 year old twins (at age 3 1/2) and they refused to wear them. Black velvet all the way. Never mind that their dad wears black knitted. We’re just happy they wear the yarmulkahs.

By: Warren Moon

Warren Moon — Mon, 14 May 2007 15:20:43 +0000

Ot should also wonder if the creators of the designer yarkmulkas are breaking the law – do they have an arrangement with the company to use their logo? Are they paying royalties? I’m skeptical that they do.

By: AlanLaz

AlanLaz — Mon, 14 May 2007 02:36:11 +0000

I agree with Greg and was going to say much of the same, but he beat me to it.

To me, a kid who wears a kippa proudly and happily is to be praised, regardless of what’s on the Kippa.

By: Greg

Greg — Mon, 14 May 2007 01:50:33 +0000

People nowadays don’t wear kippot to remind them of God; it’s sociological act of identification with a specific culture. By your logic, you should insist that everyone wear as plain a yarmulka as possible; if one wears a sruga, or suede, or velvet kippa to show that they are associated with some sub-culture of contemporary Orthodox Judaism, they are just the same using it in an ulterior fashion.

Also, there are SOOOO many other things to get upset about that really make a huge difference in the world. This does not.

By: Peninah

Peninah — Mon, 14 May 2007 01:35:03 +0000

I am actually going to play Devil’s Advocate on this one. I used to be opposed to these designer Yarumulkas and Tsizis as well, but then one day I realized that it is hard for these boys to wear yarmulkas and tsizis (even at age 8, 9, and 10) and while it would be ideal for them to be able to put them on with no argument or fight it isn’t always easy. So, if we can bring it down to their level and make it an easier mitzvah for them to do, why not? I am 30 and it is hard for me to cover my hair and wear tznius clothes- so obviously it is easier now that they make sheitels actually look nicer and feel more comfortable. I sort of look at that as a parallel.

BTW, this has nothing to do with what my almost 8 year old son does or doesn’t do- he took the kipah matter into his own hands when he flat out refused to wear anything but velvet (at age 4) and we still haven’t been able to get a suede one or anything else back on him. We are just happy that he happily wears a kipah.